Estate Planning Mistakes Hiding In Plain Sight

Oct 21, 2026

A thorough estate plan goes beyond a will tucked away in a file, or even a trust you’ve set up and funded. Retirement accounts, for example, pass directly to the beneficiaries named on them, no matter what your will says. So whose names are on yours, and when did you last check? Real estate left to adult children as joint owners can create its own problems, and digital assets are easy to overlook entirely. These details slip through the cracks because they’re scattered across documents and accounts you may not have looked at in years. The good news is that a careful review can catch them before they lead to delays, disputes, or outcomes your family never expected.

Overlooked Assets, Unrealistic Plans, Communication Gaps…

At Chambliss, Bahner & Stophel, attorney Nicholas Nester cautions: “A well-built estate plan is never only about the documents or tax planning. Most of the mistakes we see, the ones that cost families real money, time, and heartache, have nothing to do with the structure of the plan or the taxes. These issues happen because certain assets were overlooked, titled incorrectly, or left to pass by default rather than by design.”

Because retirement accounts, like IRAs, 401(k)s, and Other Qualified Accounts, tend to be the largest asset other than a home in many families, they deserve much more attention than they ordinarily get, as Nester underscores:

…Retirement accounts pass outside your will by beneficiary designation. That designation you filled out in 2009 may no longer reflect your life today. A divorced spouse, a deceased parent, or an ex-employer’s plan you forgot about are all common and costly surprises.
The rules regarding inherited retirement accounts have also changed dramatically in recent years. Most nonspouse beneficiaries who inherit an IRA must empty it within 10 years, which can create a significant income tax burden for children in their peak earning years.
Careful beneficiary selection (which oftentimes may include a charity), and in some cases Roth conversions during your lifetime, can make a dramatic difference in what your family actually keeps.

Attorneys find that another aspect of estate planning that needs more serious consideration is arrangements for the family home, and/or second home. Many aging parents assume their grown children will work it out equitably, but unfortunately, conflicts arise. Even in close families, with grief and stress added to the mix, siblings can end up unable to agree on plans to sell or renovate or on “who gets to do what, when.” To avoid problems later, Nestor shares these tips for thinking forward about real estate:

Children often have different financial circumstances, geographic attachments, and ideas about whether to keep, share, or sell the family vacation home or farm. Joint ownership between siblings rarely works as smoothly as parents hope. One child pays the taxes and insurance, another uses it every weekend, and resentment builds.
A purpose-built structure, such as an LLC or trust with clear usage rights, cost-sharing rules, and an exit mechanism, can preserve both the property and relationships.
Real estate can also throw another wrench in an estate plan, specifically when the real estate is owned in a different state than the decedent’s primary residence. As a general rule, and without proper planning, you must probate an estate in all states where real estate is owned.

Don’t Neglect Digital Assets

Estate planning experts also remind us not to overlook digital assets during estate planning. Secrets lead to heartache–and loss. Most of us would probably benefit from making a complete digital asset inventory in preparation for estate planning. Then, consider: who needs to know about them, understand the intentions for their use, and readily access them? Depending on the extent of digital investments, it may even be appropriate to appoint a digital executor specifically for these assets.

Good To Do: Carefully Designate and Prepare Fiduciaries

A key aspect of proactive estate planning is the careful designation of the fiduciaries responsible for administering your arrangements. If you write a will, you will name an executor (or personal representative in some states) to settle your estate and distribute assets.If you create a trust, you will name a trustee to manage and safeguard trust property for your beneficiaries. By selecting and preparing these fiduciaries ahead of time, you can guard against unnecessary confusion and conflict down the road.

Because fiduciaries manage sensitive assets and court-monitored affairs, they may be required to secure estate bonds before commencing their duties. An estate bond is a type of fiduciary bond—a formal financial guarantee in the form of a three-party contract between the court, the fiduciary, and a surety company—that ensures the estate and its beneficiaries are protected against mismanagement, fraud, or error.

Navigating the bonding process doesn’t have to slow down estate planning and administration. Colonial Surety Company makes it easy, fast, and affordable for executors, trustees, and personal representatives to obtain estate and all types of fiduciary bonds.

Fiduciaries can quickly get instant quotes and print official court documents online to keep the estate closing process moving forward.

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